Are You Fighting the Waves or Riding the Current?

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By Kim Stiver

Stiver Kim - Ocean ViewThis was the turbulent view out my window on a recent ocean cruise: rolling seas as far as the eye could see, with 20-foot swells, 60 mph winds, and dreary skies. Not exactly the kind of day we’d hoped for on our first morning of a long-awaited tropical vacation.

During one of the many times I was awake during the night, a favorite Bible story came to mind. Matthew 8:23-27 began to play out like a movie in the rocking darkness. There was Jesus, fast asleep on a tiny wooden fishing boat being tossed about on the Sea of Galilee – a mere 26.5 feet long compared to our 965-foot ship. Suddenly I understood the magnitude of Him being able to sleep through the storm. Here I was tossing and turning in a soft bed, and there He was sleeping soundly while 12 other men panicked as water crested the bow and coursed into the boat.

Stiver Kim - Peace Be StillWhy did Jesus choose to sleep in the first place? The surface answer is He wanted to demonstrate 100 percent peace and rest in any storm – no matter how wet, cold, and noisy it is. But as I imagined Peter rushing to wake Him up, an unusual thought came to mind: Jesus smiling with his eyes closed. Here are two men in opposite states of mind in the exact same situation. One is in utter panic, fearing for his life and incapable of making sound decisions. And the Other is at total peace. He continues to lie there with a simple, knowing smile on his face as Peter shakes Him forcefully. He knows something Peter doesn’t … yet. He knows that sometimes it is better to ride the waves than fight the current. This is the deeper question Jesus answers for us – when do you rise up and fight the storms and when do you simply yield and ride it out?

Stiver Kim - Riding WavesOswald Chambers said, “The surf that distresses the ordinary swimmer, produces in the surfer the super joy of going clean through it.” He cites Romans 8:37, which says we are more than conquerors in Jesus. And Exodus 14:14 says God fights for us. Sometimes He wants us to simply be still and let the current have its way with us. He gently whispers to us about the waves of life, “Stop fighting and instead learn to ride them. Let them take you where I want you to go. Lie in the boat and ride it out with Me. Through Me, you can experience peace and even joy in tribulation.”

In Matthew 11:28, Jesus says He will give us rest. And He didn’t put any caveats on that statement. He will give us rest as we journey through life with Him – in times of peace and times of travail. In the boat of life, Jesus wants you as close to Him as you can get. And sometimes that means He has to rock it to get you to fall back next to Him, right where you belong.


Stiver Kim headshot renewKim Stiver sees glimpses of God’s goodness and glory in everyday life. Whether it’s observing nature in the Maine woods or seeing stories emerge from the joys and trials of everyday living, Kim’s passion is helping others see God’s plan for redemption and restoration in their own lives. After a 25-year professional marketing career, Kim launched her ministry and corresponding blog, Glimmers in the Fog, in late 2017. As an accomplished speaker, Bible teacher, and writer, Kim has a passion for serving Jesus by bringing stories to life. She also currently serves as her church’s director of women’s ministry and as VP of engagement for EmancipAction, an anti-trafficking nonprofit.

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